I'm all for the G-Spot

An article from the Adult Toy Chest newsletter:


What is the G-Spot?

What is the G-Spot?The G-Spot is a sexually sensitive area about the size of a dime located on the front wall of the vagina, about two or three inches in from the vaginal opening, midway between the public bone and the cervix. In a recent study the G-spot was found in every women examined, so most likely your girlfriend has one. When stroked, the G-spot can swell to the size of quarter and provoke a powerful orgasm that is often accompanied by a burst of fluid. This burst of fluid is commonly referred to as female ejaculation, or squirting.

Preparing to Find the G-Spot

Now let's talk about finding your girlfriend's G-Spot. First remember that this is supposed to be fun. Relax. Just begin with a little exploration. Ask your partner to give you feedback. If she finds talking about it embarrassing, ask her direct yes or no questions.

Many women have stopped just short of discovering the pleasures of their G-Spot because during stimulation they felt the urge to urinate. Assure your girlfriend that feeling the urge to urinate during G-Spot stimulation is normal and not at all uncommon. This feeling passes, so just stay with it. Having her void her bladder before you begin should help alleviate some of her concerns, and placing a towel underneath her will help as well. Most importantly, let her know that you are comfortable and perfectly OK with whatever happens. This gives her the freedom to feel comfortable as well.

Finding the G-Spot

Begin by using two fingers, palm up, pressing the upper front wall of her vagina, applying firm upward pressure. Your fingers should be directed toward the bellybutton. The vaginal walls are very slick and smooth, and you will be looking for an area that has a coarser texture than the rest of the slick vaginal wall. At first, this area may be approximately the size of a dime, but during stimulation it may swell to the size of up to a quarter. Size varies among women and does not correlate with the size of other body parts. Keep in mind that you are looking for a change in texture more than a palpable protrusion.

Stimulating the G-Spot

Since I have very little "hands-on" experience, I consulted with my favorite G-Spot expert, Master Dragon. He advised the following:

"Once you find the G-Spot, experiment with pressure. Unlike the clitoris, the G-Spot often requires very firm to downright strong pressure. I have found that most women enjoy a firm circular motion. Imagine circling the rim of a quarter. It has been my experience that aproximately.65-70% of women can cum with G-Spot stimulation alone, but why waste a free hand? Clit stimulation is always a plus.

You should also know that some women ejaculate a clear fluid during orgasm, during or following G-Spot stimulation. Be sure that you make your girlfriend aware of this. Many women suffer embarrassment needlessly because they think that they have urinated, when in reality they have just had their first experience with female ejaculation. Now, as a Dominant, I understand the temptation to engage in a little humiliation play and not tell her, but for her first time I highly discourage it. Not only could this ruin what might possibly be the most intense orgasm of her life, but a bad first experience can be hard (if not impossible) to recover from. Back to Raven for the woman's perspective."

Fail proof G-Spot Location

If you are still experiencing difficulty finding or reaching the G-Spot using your fingers, there are a number of excellent toys that are specially designed for locating and stimulating the G-Spot. They are designed with a specific angle meant to make finding that elusive spot easy, and some vibrate for addition sensation. There are also instructional books and videos that can assist you. Raven's personal recommendation is that when you find her G-Spot, add some of these toys to your repertoire so you have even more ways to enjoy your new found discovery.
Always Yours,
Raven